Conflict Transformation

Beyond resolution, conflict transformation views conflicts as opportunities for deeper understanding and stronger relationships.

Objectives

Materials

Instructions

Introduce the idea that conflicts, handled well, can strengthen relationships and deepen understanding. Learn transformation questions: What can I learn from this? How can we grow closer through this? What needs aren't being met? Practise transformative conflict conversations that seek understanding rather than just ending the conflict. Reflect on conflicts that led to growth.

Educator tip

This is advanced work—children need solid conflict resolution skills before moving to transformation. Build on earlier learning.

Assessment

Assess against Early Learning Goals (ELGs). Document evidence of 'expected' or 'exceeding' descriptors. Note: independent application of skills, ability to explain reasoning, and capacity to build on prior learning. Observe transformation mindset, quality of transformative conversations, and relationship growth through conflict.

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