Resolving Conflicts with a Peace Table

The Montessori peace table teaches children to resolve conflicts independently through dialogue, building lifelong conflict resolution skills.

• Framework: Montessori
• Unit: Practical Life
• Learning area: Grace & Courtesy
• Level: Ages 3-6

Objectives

• Learn conflict resolution process
• Practice active listening
• Develop problem-solving skills

Materials

• Peace table (small table with two chairs)
• Peace rose or talking object
• Timer (optional)

Instructions

1. Both children sit at the peace table. 2. One child holds the peace rose and speaks: 'I felt when .' 3. The other child listens without interrupting. 4. Pass the rose—the other child responds. 5. Continue passing until both feel heard. 6. Together, agree on a solution. 7. Shake hands or hug.

Educator tip

Don't solve the conflict for them—guide the process. The peace rose ensures only one person speaks at a time. Stay nearby but let them lead.

Assessment

Children resolve a conflict at the peace table with a mutually agreed solution.

More from Practical Life

• Offering Help to Others
• Using Please and Thank You
• Walking Indoors vs Outdoors
• Excusing Yourself Politely
• Table Manners During Meals
• Sharing Materials Gracefully
• Listening When Someone is Speaking
• Receiving a Gift or Compliment