Listening When Someone is Speaking

Active listening is fundamental to learning and social interaction, building respect, comprehension, and community.

• Framework: Montessori
• Unit: Practical Life
• Learning area: Grace & Courtesy
• Level: Ages 3-5

Objectives

• Develop active listening skills
• Build respect for speakers
• Practice body language of listening

Materials

• Listening circle seating

Instructions

1. Sit in a circle or face the speaker. 2. Eyes on the speaker. 3. Hands in lap or still. 4. Mouth closed while they talk. 5. Brain thinking about what they're saying. 6. Wait for them to finish. 7. Respond thoughtfully. 8. Practice: 'I heard you say...'

Educator tip

Use the acronym SLANT: Sit up, Lean forward, Ask questions, Nod, Track the speaker. For young ones, 'Ears open, mouth closed.'

Assessment

Child demonstrates active listening body language and responds appropriately.

More from Practical Life

• Receiving a Gift or Compliment
• Walking Around Someone's Work
• Answering the Phone or Door
• Saying 'I'm Sorry' Meaningfully
• Welcoming a New Student
• Giving and Receiving Feedback
• Respecting Personal Space
• Hosting a Guest for Tea