Resolving Conflicts Peacefully

Peaceful conflict resolution teaches children to solve problems without aggression or adult intervention.

• Framework: Montessori
• Unit: Practical Life
• Learning area: Grace and Courtesy
• Level: Ages 4-6

Objectives

• Learn conflict resolution
• Develop communication skills
• Build problem-solving

Materials

• Peace table or corner
• Talking stick
• Feelings cards
• Solution suggestions

Instructions

1. Take a breath to calm down. 2. Use 'I' statements: 'I feel... when...' 3. Listen to the other person's perspective. 4. Brainstorm solutions together. 5. Agree on a solution. 6. Try it. 7. Check back later.

Educator tip

Model conflict resolution explicitly. Use peace table as neutral ground.

Assessment

Child participates in conflict resolution using appropriate language.

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