Apologizing Sincerely

Sincere apology teaches children accountability and begins repair of social relationships.

• Framework: Montessori
• Unit: Practical Life
• Learning area: Grace and Courtesy
• Level: Ages 3-5

Objectives

• Learn to take responsibility
• Develop empathy
• Build conflict resolution skills

Materials

• Scenario cards
• Feelings charts
• Role-play situations

Instructions

1. Recognize that your action hurt someone. 2. Approach the person. 3. Make eye contact. 4. Say 'I'm sorry for...' naming what you did. 5. Acknowledge their feelings if appropriate. 6. Offer to make amends if possible.

Educator tip

Model sincere apologies yourself. Help children name specifically what they're apologizing for.

Assessment

Child apologizes sincerely with specificity and empathy.

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